In today's world of digital connections, ghosting has become an all-too-common dating phenomenon - but one woman's experience takes it to a jaw-dropping extreme. A 30-year-old known only as CP recently went viral for being ghosted mid-vacation by the guy she had been dating, abandoned in Miami with no explanation beyond a vague "devastating news".
CP's cautionary tale is every dater's nightmare scenario. After meeting a charming man at a party months earlier, their flirtatious conversations led to him flying CP out to Florida for a romantic couple's getaway as their second date. The luxurious Miami trip at the upscale W Hotel started seamlessly, with the man enthusiastically planning and paying for their activities.
That quickly turned into a dating horror when the man claimed having to meet his "sister" for lunch before their dinner reservations - only to go eerily silent until sending CP that cryptic text about getting bad news. Assuming he'd return after handling whatever crisis arose, CP waited patiently for hours. But her date was a no-show, vanishing without a courtesy heads-up and even retrieving his belongings from their hotel room while she napped.
"The fishy part was the lack of decency in not letting me know he was leaving," she recalled. Certain something more nefarious was afoot, CP posted a TikTok video recounting the bizarre abandonment - which quickly racked up over three million views as internet sleuths rallied to uncover the truth.
Several bizarre red flags quickly emerged, like the man using a texting app to disguise his real phone number from CP. As commenters theorized the "devastating news" was actually the man's wife catching on, she received over 30 messages from people wanting to help investigate shady Casanova - including one who had confronted him about already being married for 15 years.
The conclusive smoking gun? Public records revealed the man had purchased a home in 2020 with a woman whose last name matched his - certainly no "sister." CP was stunned: "Him being married or living with another woman seemed unlikely because why would someone do that in front of their kids?" As one commenter bluntly put it, "The devastating news is that his wife found out."
Days later, the ghosting married man tried slithering back with a hollow apology text calling his actions "f*ckboi sh*t." But CP wasn't buying his excuses anymore, brazenly calling him out: "Was the urgent situation that your wife told you get your ass back home?"
While CP's anger is justified, she's still managing to sum up the harsh experience with a levelheaded warning for other singles: "Make sure you're in a position to have an easy escape plan. If it was an Airbnb and we were completely secluded, that would seem like a bad idea, but a public hotel felt much safer."